Do you find yourself desiring a different result in your life? It could be in your relationship, your business, your health, where you live. It could be anything really. What I am really asking you is this:
What is it that you really want, but can’t seem to have?
My focus with my clients is to help them build their dream life through a financially abundant business, so naturally most of my articles focus on business topics, or topics that have a direct impact on your business, such as your mindset, or your relationship with money.
However today I am going deeper, because how you do one thing truly is how you do everything. And if you are not getting results in a big area of your life, it’s time to start looking at how you show up in the smaller areas of your life – because if you don’t – this challenge you are having will repeat itself in other areas. And it WILL follow you into your business.
What is it you aren’t willing to do?
Yes, if there is something you want, but can’t seem to make happen, it doesn’t matter how hard you “try” – if you are honest with yourself, there is something you aren’t willing to do!
And it shows up in the form of self sabotage.
- Wanting to lose weight, but not being willing to eat healthy
- Wanting to live somewhere else but not willing to go through a move or take on a bigger mortgage
- Wanting to improve your health, but not being willing to give up unhealthy habits
- Wanting to make more money but not being willing to invest in building your business
- Wanting to take a vacation, but not being willing to save the money for it
“Not Willing” has many forms
I know it may feel like you are willing, yet that there are circumstances preventing you – such as:
- It’s hard to find healthy food
- If I move then I need to find a different job
- It’s how I relieve stress, I can’t give up this habit
- I don’t have the money to invest in my business
- I needed that money to pay for a new mattress.
The thing is, unwillingness doesn’t always seem that way on the surface. Reasons show up as to why you can’t. However reasons are sneaky, and it’s usually your subconscious mind and your habits playing tricks on you to keep you exactly where you are, to keep you with what you know.
Reasons are cruel, because they take power away from you and give it to something outside of you. And when you aren’t fully in control and power in your life, you have to live with results of who or what is.
The truth is if you really examine the reasons that may show up in your life a little deeper, you can see that prioritizing what’s comfortable NOW, has taken priority over goals and ultimate outcomes.
Step into your power
So my challenge to you this week, is to look at what it is you desire, and look at your reasons for not achieving it. Then I want you to ask your self
“What have I been prioritizing over my goals? And what am I WILLING to do to change it?” Then I want you to set a date and make it happen.
It can be a business goal or a personal goal. It doesn’t matter. Making a decision to rise above your reasons, is a decision to take back your power and to keep in control. And as I said above, how you do one thing, is how you do everything. This will be one of the most empowering decisions you can make as it will have a ripple effect going forward of success!
Let me know what you will change below to make YOUR dreams happen.
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